The one about unconditional love

So since I wrote three books about a transwoman I feel like a tiny part-time spokesperson for the transcommunity. Looking at transmen and women they aren't gay but not straight not bisexual. I mean some can be sexually but as far as body wise hmm I don't think I'm explaining this right. 

Okay gay men are men who like other men but they don't want to change thei sex. Gay women are women who like other women. Straight men and women like each other. Bisexual men and women like both men and women. All six classes of men and women essentially don't want to change their sexual identities. With the transgender they can be into men or women BUT they must change their physical sexual identity. I say must because it's not a choice or a preference. It's a "if I want to be happy and die smiling I need to do this."

For these reasons are why DesirĂ© Andersen is transgendered and not biological woman. Now having said all that lately I've been asking my straight guy friends "would you date a transwoman?" Immediate answer is no. Then I say "what if she didn't tell you until after you fell in love!" I was shocked to find out 50% would break up with her. I was sure they'd all say end it. And the ones that said no is because they wanted kids in the future. But some did say "I'd ride it out till the relationship ended it's course though I mean if I love her by that time?" Wow! Love really is unconditional I guess. What are your thoughts? Would you date a transwoman as a biological male? Biological women would you feel threatened by transwomen? Straight guys transmen? Comment below. 

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